GayHIVPoz http://www.gayhivpoz.com/blog Free Gay Dating Tue, 02 Feb 2010 02:30:17 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=abc en hourly 1 HIV and Dating, disclosure and rejection http://www.gayhivpoz.com/blog/hiv-and-dating-disclosure-and-rejection/ http://www.gayhivpoz.com/blog/hiv-and-dating-disclosure-and-rejection/#comments Tue, 02 Feb 2010 02:30:17 +0000 Support Staff http://www.gayhivpoz.com/blog/?p=56 One of the most difficult things you will ever have to do is tell someone you’re HIV Positive. Disclosing that you’re HIV positive is difficult but sometimes necessary. Being HIV Positive alone is very difficult. Having emotional support from friends and relatives helps but at some point when you decide to try dating again,  you will need to tell someone you are HIV positive. This “Mini-How-To” will help making HIV disclosure as stress-free as possible.

  1. Know why you are telling the people you are telling. Is it for relationship purposes?
  2. Expect their reaction. Expect the worst, hope for the best, and decide what’s the worst you will have to deal with?
  3. Learn as much as you can(factual), about HIV.
  4. Have printed materials and articles to give to the person to help educated them.
  5. Talk it over with someone you trust and come up with a plan of how you’re going to disclose and when.
  6. Regardless of their reaction accept it. You can’t control the feelings and fears of others.
  7. Once you have told them be patient and give them some time to think it over. It may take some time for those you tell to process the information.

Date someone first before telling them with NO kissing or sexual activities. This will allow you to get to know them better and help you decide if they are really someone you want to disclose to. Conversely it will let them have time to get to know you and get a little more attached to you, also creating a reason to NOT reject you.

We hope these tips help you in your Dating and Being HIV Positive. Life doesn’t end after diagnoses.

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Gay dating has been out of the closet and for quite some time now and gay singles are everywhere now. The Gay Community is a well-accepted community now and the scarlet letter stigma of being gay is long gone.

Gay men and women have plenty of opportunities now to meet other singles and find dates. If this is your first time as a gay man dating and seeking other gay singles, there are probably a bunch of butterflies in your stomach. Man to man dating can be tough since there really are no courtship rules for gays, at least not yet. So here are some tips for the first date.

  1. Keeping the first dates short is always a good idea. Most single men set aside a couple of hours for the first date. This way the pressure is off and you still have plenty of time to get to know your date.
  2. Dating means taking the time to get to know each other for the purpose of long-term relationships. So by the time you’ve had a couple of dates, you know what turns on your gay partner. So, it’s a good idea to keep some conversation openers ready at hand before the date?
  3. Dress up for the occasion! Dating, whether for straight single people or gay single men, means putting your best foot forward and making a good impression. I dated quite a handsome man from college once, who could turn the head of whole rooms with his sheer confidence. What was his secret? The way he dressed!
  4. The best way to enjoy your first date is to be relaxed. You’re on a date to have a good, fun time, so stressing yourself out isn’t going to help and it will show in your body language, so just relax and enjoy. Being dressed nicely and knowing the date is only a short time will help you to be confidant and relax.

These 4 tips will help you make it through the first date and might help you to get a second date as well. Just remember that confidence shows in your walk and talk and being relaxed helps you to be confidant.

Enjoy…

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Today, online gay dating is one of the most popular systems for meeting someone new to go on a date with. There are many online gay dating websites you can visit and see people who are looking to meet someone new. You can post your picture and create a profile on one of them too.

This will allow you to tell everything about yourself. This way, people can see if you enjoy the same types of activities they do and you can see if certain people look to be like someone you might be interested in.

Online dating has proven to be a successful method for meeting people and setting up dates. Many people have continued their relationships and even been married or connected to a life partner through online gay dating methods.

Relationships through online dating aren’t always successful but you may meet a new friend if you are not compatible for dating.

Gay Online Dating Services are a great way to meet many new people but it is important to remember you also need to be safe. The Internet is not always what it seems and people are not always honest with everything about themselves.

You should be sure when you go on your first date you meet somewhere you feel safe and comfortable with and be sure to protect yourself at all times. Usually this is in a public area or place.

You can have a fantastic experience and meet your perfect match but you don’t want to be a statistic because you believed everything the other person said on the Internet.  Gay Online Dating Services are also a way to screen out undesirables. Don’t jump at the first chance to meet someone, take your time and be safe.

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